The meaning behind wedding rituals
The meaning behind wedding rituals
Wedding rituals are more than just beautiful ceremonies; they often carry deep-rooted history and symbolism. I thought I’d explore the origins and significance of some beloved wedding traditions.
Handfasting
Originating in Celtic cultures, handfasting involves tying a couple’s hands together with a cord or ribbon, signifying their union. While it was once associated with temporary marriages, it has evolved into a symbol of eternal love and commitment. The act of binding hands represents the intertwining of two lives, creating a strong and unbreakable bond. Each of the colours in the cords signifies something special, such as white is purity.
Handfasting in action!
Unity candles
Though its exact origins are unclear, the unity candle ceremony has become a popular choice for modern weddings. Two individual candles, representing the bride and groom, are lit and used to ignite a larger candle, symbolising the creation of a new life together. The flickering flame represents the love that will guide their journey as a married couple. It’s also a lovely idea to include children if either of you have any. They can also have their own candle (supervised!) that they can also light the central candle, blending your families together.
Unity candle ritual
Wine blending
One of my favourites - a more contemporary tradition, wine blending involves the couple pouring a small amount of wine from two different bottles into a single vessel, creating a unique blend. This ritual signifies the merging of two individuals into a harmonious partnership. Each wine represents the couple’s unique qualities, and when combined, they create something entirely new and beautiful.
Wine blending ritual
Other enduring traditions
Jumping the broom: Rooted in African American heritage, jumping the broom symbolises the couple’s new beginning and entering a new phase of life together.
Breaking glass: A Jewish custom, breaking a glass after the ceremony is believed to bring good luck to the couple. It also commemorates the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem.
These are just a few examples of the many wedding rituals practiced around the world. Each tradition holds special meaning for couples, adding a touch of history and romance to their special day.
Do you have a favourite wedding ritual or tradition? Share your thoughts in the comments below!